Sexual Problems

Men and Women suffer from a variety of sexual problems and a list of the more common ones follows:

• erectile dysfunction - failure to achieve or maintain an erect penis
• premature ejaculation - orgasming/coming too soon before or during penetration
• lack of libido(sex drive) - disinterested in sex
• excessive libido - wanting sex all of the time, sometimes known as sexual addiction
• inability to achieve orgasm - cannot let go or relax enough to get to that state
• Vaginismus - Uncontrollable tightening of the vagina muscles at the point of penetration
• Fear of sex - the person cannot develop a sexual relationship

Often having a sexual problem is the hardest thing anyone can admit to let alone ask for help with. My therapy room provides a safe and secure haven which is completely private and confidential and my clients always feel able to discuss the nature of their problems with a completely non-judgemental, comfortable and trust building initial chat.

I have had considerable experience in working with people who have sexual problems and they respond very well to the analytical process which once successfully completed allows my client to move on, lose their previous inhibitions and go on to develop a normal sex life.

Sexual abuse can be experienced at any age and can create a whole host of behavioural, psychological or physical difficulties or habits, fears, phobias etc. Working with those survivors of sexual abuse, and attending several courses on subject has enabled me to create the right therapeutic and empathetic environment and gain an invaluable understanding of the particular needs and behaviours of these clients.

I work with both adult, child and teenage survivors of sexual abuse and rape. In the case of ,adults, generally after the intial chat and depending on circumstances, often the analytical process would be the answer.

This is a series of 6 - 12 sessions which provides an effective method of releasing all of that bottled up emotion from the past. In the case of children and teenagers one or two gentle relaxing session also releasing some of that emotion and geared towards the positive rather than the negative.

Please don’t let your sexual problems get in the way of your life.  Come and see me, then,  in a private, confidential  and comfortable environment we can have an initial chat.  This way you will be able to feel comfortable enough with me to talk about what is bothering you and I can find out about you and your life so far.

 At the end of our chat I will make some recommendations for what I believe will be the best way to overcome your problems and then you are free to make a choice, whether to accept my recommendations or just simply walk away.

 There is no obligation  on either your part or mine to continue on to start any treatment if either of us should not wish to.  This is because there has to be a good rapport with us both in order to build up that trusting, empathetic, therapeutic relationship for treatment to be successful.

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